Okay seriously people. I read this article today and
it really changed my outlook on "Social Media" and how things really
are in the time we live in. This article explains how social media is ruining
relationships and I cannot even begin to explain how true it is.
Do you remember being a little kid? What were your summer
days like? Heck, what did you do every day after school?
You played OUTSIDE! Ya know, this magical mysterious place
where the world is your playground and your imagination made anything possible.
Even when it was freezing outside we'd be playing in the snow for hours. That’s
just what you did. We didn’t have "cell phones" or "I-pads."
It’s so sad to see kids these days go DAYS without even
playing outside. Being so advanced and being able to have a mini computer in
our pockets is so amazing but its destroying so many of us.
In this article is explains how social media is distracting
us from the relationships with those around us and I found myself guilty of
distracting myself from the relationships around me. My husband, my family, my
dog! I find myself spending more time on my phone then with the people around
me. The simple moments of eating dinner with Zack or watching our favorite
show, I find MYSELF getting out my phone and giving my attention elsewhere. I
am not doing harm to those relationships but I am not giving it my full
attention when I should be.
We do not know when people will disappear from our lives.
Tomorrow is not guaranteed, so this month I am challenging myself (and those
around me) to put your electronics away. Give more attention to those around
us, our loved ones. Whatever it is, it can wait. Wake up each morning, roll over
and tell your spouse you love them. Don't get on Facebook or Instagram. Wake up
and tell a family member how grateful you are for them. Don't update your
Twitter feed. Take more adventures, go spend time outside (it still exists,
crazy I know). I want the little moments to be more meaningful and my phone is
keeping me from that. I will save social media for my alone time. People
deserve my full attention and I deserve theirs. So Peace Out Social Media, I'd
like to spend more time with my fam bam.
Love Always,
The Crazy Collards
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